Friday, January 21, 2005

To call or not to call

The dinner date that wasn't - talked to him on Monday after he'd left me a couple of messages, he said we'd talk soon, haven't heard since then. I think I'm better off letting things lie, letting him call me, rather than me calling him. What do y'all think?

3 comments:

Lisa @ The Plain-Spoken Pen said...

Yeah, that's what I was thinking - he's a big boy, he knows where to find me if he wants to talk! :-)

L.

Anonymous said...

The only thing that comes to my mind is the Oprah show she did on the guy who wrote the book called "I'm just not that Into you".

If he doesn't call and/or leaves messages that says "we'll talk soon". We'll unfortunately it sounds like He's just not that into you.


I'd just let him call...and find someone else...he's not worth your time and you're SOOO much better than that.

Lisa @ The Plain-Spoken Pen said...

Anonymous, you're right, I sure am worth more! :) But he and I are at least friends, if nothing else, and I really think there's a bit more to it than that. I think his slowness in calling (and he did - see today's post) is partly his personality and partly because I think he's still a little freaked out by my rather indefinite marital status. But not freaked out enough to run away altogether, apparently - he's the one who keeps getting in touch with me. I'm not reading anything into it, though, or at least trying not to. LOL

L.